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Cyberbullying on YouTube: Six Things All Parents Should Know

| June 8, 2012 | Comments (3)
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Between the entertainment, marketing and sharing advantages that it offers, we can all agree that YouTube is a fantastic service. But in today’s world it either takes a lot of bravery, a huge desire for attention or a lot of ignorance to post a video of yourself on YouTube.

Cyberbullying has highlighted something that we’ve all known for a long time: Not everyone on the Internet is nice. As an online community, YouTube is no exception to cyberbullying and Generation Y is no stranger to this reality. In fact, they know it better than their parents do. However, today’s youth may be more inclined to deal with those cyberbullies or overlook the risk entirely as they see avenues like YouTube as a way to seek social acceptance, take a stance on something they believe in or simply to vent.

With over a billion daily users, it’s important that your family knows the best ways to avoid and deal with cyberbullying on YouTube. Here are five good practices and solutions to keep in mind.

1.  If your child is under 13 they shouldn’t have a YouTube account

In compliance with a very important children’s privacy law, COPPA, users must be at least 13 years of age to register for a YouTube account.  Signing up for an account when your child isn’t 13 puts their online privacy and safety immediately at risk. Your children and teens can still enjoy YouTube without being a member; just be sure to turn on YouTube Safety Mode.

2.  Don’t use YouTube to let off steam

There are better ways for your child to express their frustration than recording themselves and posting it on YouTube.  Video blogging (vlogs) is something a lot of young people do on YouTube, and on a regular basis. After so many “successful” vlogs, it’s easy to gain some trust in the YouTube community and think that letting off a little steam might be greeted with community support, but that’s not always the case. All it really takes is an opinion that someone else doesn’t agree with and there’s a good chance rude comments will come flooding in.

3.  Use YouTube’s privacy settings

The settings that YouTube makes available to their users are not only helpful, they’re comprehensive. You can prevent people from embedding your video on other websites by disabling video embedding, you can disable commenting, which is a huge cyberbullying-avoidance tool as most harassment on YouTube takes place right in the comments thread, and you can determine the overall visibility of your video by choosing from one of the three privacy settings:

  • Public – Anyone can search for and view this video
  • Unlisted – Only people with a link to your video can watch it
  • Private – Only specific people you choose can view the video

4.  Never, ever respond to the bully

A response is the only thing they want out of your child, and if they give it to them, well, then, the bully has already won. Instead, take a screenshot the bully’s comment and then delete it. Then go to  the bully’s YouTube channel, click on the drop down arrow next to their username in the right panel and select Block User. Blocking a user will stop them from making comments on your child’s videos or Channel, as well as stop them from being able to contact you through private messages.

5.  Use YouTube’s reporting tools

If, for a child, the cyberbullying has escalated to something worse such as video manipulation or unauthorized sharing of your video, it’s always best to tell a trusted adult so they can contact the website operators. Sometimes bullies will use YouTube as a way to extend their bullying from school grounds to the Internet, amplifying the psychological effects on their victim. YouTube’s reporting tools can be very useful in situations like these.

6.  Never use personally identifiable information

Using personal information on any website is almost always a bad idea. Though YouTube only allows you to enter the city and country you live in, users can customize their “About this channel” section to say anything they want about themselves. YouTube also gives users the option to sync their Facebook, Twitter and Google+ profiles to their channel. If cyberbullying is something you or your child has dealt with on YouTube in the past, it’s best to stay away from this option as it only creates more opportunities for a bully to continue the harassment on those networks.

Category: Cyberbullying, Safety

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  1. Anno says:

    i really like that this site doesn’t take a “purge all technology” approach that seems to be absurdly popular with parents now days. Thank you for pointing out to parents that these sites where not made to seek out and attack there children, but rather have policies (such as the 13 year old age limit on youtube) that are designed to protect them from it. I really hope you guys can keep informing parents that the internet isn’t an evil place. it just has to be used correctly.

    • Mary Kay says:

      Thank you, Anno, for your words of support and for recognizing our approach. Please help us just by letting others know about this site and about Yoursphere, which is made by youth and for youth.

  2. Joanne Burch says:

    I found this very informative and easy to read and follow.

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